Why dating apps suck—and what that means for creating a life of purpose

The science behind the infinite elevator

Dating apps suck. You know it, we all know it. Today, we’re gonna talk about why they do—and what that has to do with making big life decisions.

Believe it or not, there’s a direct correlation between the suckiness of dating apps and our struggle to create a life of purpose.

First, the facts: Americans spend up to 90 minutes a day swiping, and studies show that over 50% of Gen Z and 40% of millennials are active users.

And yet: study after study has also linked dating app use to adverse psychological outcomes, including increased anxiety.

What’s going on? Why are dating apps so addictive and simultaneously so anxiety-inducing?

The infinite elevator

You all remember Chidi? This guy:

He’s got something to do with it.

But first, imagine you’ve died and gone to heaven.

After an eternity (!) in the waiting room, you’ve finally filled out your intake paperwork. St. Peter’s made a copy of your drivers license, insurance…